I absolutely have to share this with everybody! God has truly blessed me with the most amazing person on Earth. He is so fabulous that I just have to share him with you guys. Okay, okay! I mean, share how I feel about him. Let you meet him. Hands off, though! He’s mine! I want to introduce Brian Kevin Sigmon II. Kevin. My Kevin. This man is the love of my life. I’ve known who he was basically my whole life. We live in a super small town. Everybody knows everybody. If they don’t know you, they’ll act like they do. It’s all so crazy, really. We used to hang around the same people and places, but somehow we always missed each other. I’ve always thought he was extremely handsome but his reputation sucked. I always wanted to approach him but kept my distance. I was too afraid. Insecure. My love has also struggled with addiction. He was known around town to be a “player.” I was protecting myself and not going there. About a year and a half ago, a recovery group in my town decided to have a “get together.” My friend and I decided to go and see what it was all about. They needed help setting things up and we volunteered. As I’m standing there, this handsome man walks by and simply says “what’s up?” I smiled and said “hey,” then continued setting up. I texted my friend, who was standing right in front of me, and asked if that was who I thought it was. Sure enough, of all people, it was Kevin Sigmon. Oh my goodness, he was at a recovery event?! I hardly recognized him. Drugs had definitely taken a toll on him. However, he was still so handsome. He was really trying to get better. I was happy for him. I went home that night and just could NOT stop thinking about him! It was driving me crazy! Why in the world was I thinking about Kevin Sigmon?! That night or the next day, I sent his mom a message on Facebook. I told her to let him know if he needed a friend, I was here. She gratefully responded to me. Still, I could not stop thinking about him. I felt drawn to him. What was going on? I decided to message him directly. I told him I knew how hard it was and he was not alone. Oh my! He responded! For some reason, I’m giddy and nervous. What was going on with me? We continued messaging each other and he asked me if I wanted to hang out. I was so nervous. Of course, I said yes! A few days later, I was hanging out with him. He was so easy to talk to. I was having so much fun with him. It wasn’t much longer after seeing him that we decided to give a relationship a shot. Over a year and a half later and here we are. I was never sure about the whole “soul mate” thing. I was definitely a skeptic. WAS is the key word there. I truly believe with all my heart that I have found my soul mate. We fit perfectly together in every single way. We connect and get along so well. He asked me to marry him! I said YES!! Andrea Sigmon. I dream about it. I am so beyond blessed. I get to spend the rest of my life with my best friend. I’m not saying our relationship is perfect. It definitely isn’t. When it’s good, it’s good. When it’s bad, it’s bad. We have both fallen so many times but we have been there to help each other up. I look at this man and I am amazed. I have had the great, awesome, amazing, pleasure of watching him grow and change.
Sadly, I have left before. I hated it. Something was missing. I felt like somebody had died. I just cannot be without him. See, when things are bad and scary, I run. That’s what I do. It’s what I’m good at. Well, I should say, what I used to do. Kevin has shown me that I was running from our problems. It hurt him. I promised God, myself, and Kevin that I would not run anymore. No matter what was done, I was wrong to run. I had to face our issues. Today, I love this man more and more every second. Sometimes, I feel like I’m going to explode because I love him so much. Other times, I want to stab him in the eyeballs. Nobody has ever or can ever make me feel the way Kevin does. It’s so hard to explain. I’ve tried to communicate it but it’s difficult. Just a simple touch on my arm and I melt. I still get butterflies around him. I still look at him in amazement. I’m so proud to introduce him to you. My baby is awesome! He is my lover, best friend, and protector. He’s the one that can make me laugh until my stomach hurts. He’s the only one that can make me melt just by looking at me. He has grown so much. I’m so very proud of him. He’s amazing. I can see an awesome future with him. I’ve never been able to do that before! We have been through so much in this last year and a half. Thank God we are still going strong. We are still together. We fight to be with each other and refuse to let anything tear us apart. Kevin is my life partner. I get to spend the rest of my life with this amazing man. I cannot wait! When he hugs me, I know I’m safe. He’s got my back. He’s beautiful. I don’t see negative when I look at him. I see amazing potential and a person God is going to use to change the world. My best friend has NO idea how much I love him. I’m so grateful that I get to be his wife. This is him guys – my love, best friend, protector, safety, and comfort. He’s the one I run to when I’m happy, sad, excited, or depressed. This is Kevin Sigmon. I am so incredibly blessed that God put him in my life. Thank you for letting me share him with you! I love you, baby! 💜